Configurable client meta-data (#662)

This provide a way to configure snmalloc to provide per object meta-data that is out of band. This can be used to provide different mitigations on top of snmalloc, such as storing memory tags in a compressed form, or provide a miracle pointer like feature.

This also includes a couple of TSAN fixes as it wasn't fully on in CI.

src/test/perf/singlethread/singlethread.cc

@@ -60,7 +60,7 @@ void test_alloc_dealloc(size_t count, size_t size, bool write)
     }
   }
 
-  snmalloc::debug_check_empty<StandardConfig>();
+  snmalloc::debug_check_empty<snmalloc::Alloc::Config>();
 }
 
 int main(int, char**)