Introduce header layering (#503)

See src/snmalloc/README.md for an explanation of the layers.

Some other cleanups on the way:

Fine-grained stats support is now gone.

It's been broken for two years, it depends on iostream (which then
causes linker failures with libstdc++) and it's collecting the wrong
stats for the new design.  After discussion with @mjp41, it's better to
remove it and introduce new stats support later, rather than keep broken
code in the main branch.

Tracing was controlled with a preprocessor macro, now there's also a
CMake option.

.github/workflows/main.yml

@@ -287,7 +287,7 @@ jobs:
         git diff --exit-code
     - name: Run clang-tidy
       run: |
-        clang-tidy-9  src/override/malloc.cc  -header-filter="`pwd`/*" -warnings-as-errors='*' -export-fixes=tidy.fail -- -std=c++17 -mcx16 -DSNMALLOC_PLATFORM_HAS_GETENTROPY=0 
+        clang-tidy-9  src/snmalloc/override/malloc.cc  -header-filter="`pwd`/*" -warnings-as-errors='*' -export-fixes=tidy.fail -- -std=c++17 -mcx16 -DSNMALLOC_PLATFORM_HAS_GETENTROPY=0
         if [ -f tidy.fail ] ; then
           cat tidy.fail
           exit 1